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Post by mercRazot on Tue Apr 05, 2016 1:06 pm

I got a Reallife question : My Friends said to some guys bad words to they mothers and now they wanna hit my friend but my problem is should i help my friend he did said bad words to other peoples and i think if he make such problems he should get some punches  but he is my friend so idk should i help him or not maybe he dont want to be with me a bro if i dont help him but the other guys are right to hit him
well my friend said that he wanna fight the guys and want me to help so idk should i or not  (sorry for bad Grammar)
Write me your ideas or what you all think lol

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Post by Aerial on Tue Apr 05, 2016 1:37 pm

Idk if if you personally know the guys ur mate wants to fight, if so, just talk to em, tell em ur problem, tends to help....if that doesnt help, i personally would help my mate and fight em, and talk to my mate about it afterwards.

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Post by Marek on Tue Apr 05, 2016 9:08 pm

Kick their arses for trying to beat up your friend then beat up your friend for saying bad stuff about someones mother. Works like a charm

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Post by Tasmann on Tue Apr 05, 2016 9:40 pm

Like Aerial said, try talking it out first. You should tell your friend to apologize to the guys about what he said. He still needs to take responsibility for where he fucked up, but hopefully that can happen without someone getting a busted jaw. Whether you should help him in the fight or not is a little bit trickier, because there are basically two ways to approach this that would both, in their own ways, help your friend.

#1: Help your friend by protecting him. Don't let these ruffians beat up your friend, help him out, help to defend against the attackers. Don't be the aggressor, but use the minimum force necessary to stop the attackers until they decide to leave it be. Don't think that after just one time they won't bother you anymore, the only way you can do that is to give them a good fight. Still, do not exceed the necessary force. Gotta be careful with this, as it can in some way or another lead to legal trouble, or you and your friend could get seriously injured. Know your opponent and odds before you stand against them. The first approach should always be to prevent conflict.

#2: Allowing your friend to take a few punches to learn a lesson. This is sort of the tough love option. You're basically refusing to prevent bodily harm to your friend, but certain people only understand the kind of language that speaks with the fist instead of words. Perhaps he needs a good punch in the face to learn his lesson. This one is risky in that those guys are likely to not hold up or stop after one hit, and will really REALLY do damage to your friend. Also, you'd risk the friendship you guys have, as he might get mad, however this can be fixed later on. Most tough love disciplining/actions have the same negative initial reaction.

Which option you take is for you to decide when the time comes, however, ALWAYS try talking it out first, and definitely encourage your friend to apologize about what he said, and be firm with the encouragement.

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Post by Nightwing on Tue Apr 05, 2016 10:21 pm

If violence is inevitable stand by your mates. Always. But you should seek to talk it out before it comes to blows
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Post by Kyton on Tue Apr 05, 2016 10:41 pm

If it comes to blows. Be vicious. U should look for a way around fighting though as in reality all combatants Lose
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Post by mercRazot on Wed Apr 06, 2016 8:37 am

They don´t wanna talk they just wanna punch now my Friend on saturday

But i´m Grateful for those
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Post by Kyton on Wed Apr 06, 2016 11:17 am

If they are adamant on it stand by your friend. Do not back down first or they will make a habit of thinking they will get away with bullying.
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Post by Nightwing on Wed Apr 06, 2016 4:48 pm

If they want to fight like kyton said don't be above fighting dirty. Everyone looses in a fight it's just who can limp away in the end that counts
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Post by Marek on Wed Apr 06, 2016 7:04 pm




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Nightwing wrote:If they want to fight like kyton said don't be above fighting dirty. Everyone looses in a fight it's just who can limp away in the end that counts

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Post by Kimmeh on Thu Apr 07, 2016 3:43 am

mercRazot wrote:I got a Reallife question : My Friends said to some guys bad words to they mothers and now they wanna hit my friend but my problem is should i help my friend he did said bad words to other peoples and i think if he make such problems he should get some punches  but he is my friend so idk should i help him or not maybe he dont want to be with me a bro if i dont help him but the other guys are right to hit him
well my friend said that he wanna fight the guys and want me to help so idk should i or not  (sorry for bad Grammar)
Write me your ideas or what you all think lol

simple answer: Don't.
Try to convience your friend to apologize and the other guys to accept the apologize.
There is *no* point in fighting - In the best case you or others will just knocked down In the worst case someone will stab or shoot you down.
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